The Happiest Lives Podcast
The Happiest Lives was designed for Christian women who want to stop being disappointed in their relationships and feel more loved and loving. Here you will learn to think better, feel better, and love better.
This podcast is hosted by Jill M. Lillard, MA LPC, a licensed counselor, and Gottman Certified Couples Therapist. Jill has been helping people manage their minds, process their feelings, and have better relationships for over 25 years.
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The Happiest Lives Podcast
E104: The Habit of Arguing
Arguing feels automatic—but it’s actually a habit. One rooted in fear, frustration, and the need to feel in control. In today’s episode, Part 3 of The Habit Turnaround Series, I’ll show you how to interrupt that habit and build a new pattern rooted in clarity, peace, and connection.
You’ll learn:
• Why arguments keep repeating
• What emotional flooding does to your brain
• How to shift from needing to “win” to listening with love
• The seven steps to turning an argument into a calm, Christ-centered conversation
If you’re tired of going in circles, this episode is your turnaround. Let’s go!
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